Humanity’s Blindness, AI, and the House of Cards of Power

Last week, while talking with a 31-year-old, we spoke about the state of humanity. I mentioned that if AI ever gained control over us, it might decide to eliminate humanity. Without hesitation, he replied: “I hope it happens soon.”

His words struck me. I don’t blame him. So many young people today want to escape this chaotic world. I used to feel the same. But the tragedy is that instead of finding the courage to face and heal their inner wounds, many wait passively for some outside force—a machine, a god, or a divine rapture—to swoop in and save them. This explains why so many have recently fallen into delusions, selling their possessions and quitting their jobs, convinced that the end of the world is imminent.

Alice Miller captured this psychological trap with piercing clarity. In The Truth Will Set You Free, she wrote:

“Emotional blindness can be well studied by examining the careers of sect members. Jehovah’s Witnesses, for example, are in favor of corporal punishment and constantly warn that the end of the world is near. They are not aware that they bear within themselves the abused children they once were, and that they already experienced the end of the world when their loving parents beat them. What could be worse than that? But the Jehovah’s Witnesses learned very early not to recall their pain and to tell their children that hitting doesn’t hurt. The reality of the end of the world is constantly on their minds, but they do not know why.” (p.141)

The so-called end of the world already happened for these children—when the people who were supposed to love them became their persecutors.

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The Three Choices Humanity Faces

Human beings really have only three paths:

1. Find the courage to resolve childhood repression and break free from the emotional prison.

2. End their own lives to silence the pain.

3. Or do as most do—become cowards, stumbling through life unconsciously, compulsively searching for scapegoats to punish in place of the adults who once hurt them.

In her article The Essential Role of an Enlightened Witness in Society, Alice Miller explained why violence repeats:

“Information about abuse inflicted during childhood is recorded in our body cells as a sort of memory, linked to repressed anxiety. If lacking the aid of an enlightened witness, these memories fail to break through to consciousness; they often compel the person to violent acts that reproduce the abuse suffered in childhood, which was repressed in order to survive. The aim is to avoid the fear of powerlessness before a cruel adult. This fear can be eluded momentarily by creating situations in which one plays the active role, the role of the powerful, towards a powerless person.”

This dynamic is everywhere—in families, in politics, in religious cults, in the military, and even in agencies like ICE, where officers repeat the same sadism they once endured. It mirrors what American troops did in Iraq’s prisons, channeling their own childhood humiliation into cruelty against powerless captives.

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The Origins of Torture

In her essay The Origins of Torture in Endured Child Abuse, Miller dissected the reality behind the abuse committed by American soldiers:

“Where does this suppressed rage come from, this need to torment, humiliate, mock, and abuse helpless human beings (prisoners and children as well)? What are these outwardly tough soldiers avenging themselves for? And where have they learned such behavior? First as little children taught obedience by means of physical ‘correction,’ then in school, where they served as the defenseless objects of the sadism of some of their teachers, and finally in their time as recruits, treated like dirt by their superiors so that they could finally acquire the highly dubious ability to take anything meted out to them and qualify as ‘tough.’”

The thirst for vengeance is not a mystery. It is planted in infancy when children are forced to suffer in silence, told that cruelty is for their own good. What is learned as “discipline” becomes the template for later acts of destruction.

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Why Power Fears Truth

Every day, I see proof that Alice Miller was the only thinker who truly ventured into the darkest corners of the human mind. I could see and feel these truths in my own life, but she gave me the words. And yet, her books remain absent from the mainstream.

Why? Because it is not in the interest of those addicted to power. If the masses were to resolve their childhood repression, the power structures of politics, religion, and wealth would crumble like a house of cards. I wrote in A Dance to Freedom:

“As I mentioned, sex and drugs were just two of the ways I saw the people around me repress their true feelings to avoid the pain of being unloved, neglected children. Religion was another biggie, especially in a country like Portugal. If people could only resolve their childhood repression, the power of religion over us all would crumble like a house of cards. Sadly, I keep witnessing people who, instead of having to face, see, and feel the deep-seated traumas that have been passed down for generations, become obsessed with politics, religion, or both. My family is a perfect example of this. They were very susceptible to cults and the repression they offered.” (p.74)

This is also why social media platforms suppress my posts. Those who profit from chaos and confusion cannot afford for humanity to awaken.

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Conclusion: The Courage to See

We are standing at a threshold. AI, wars, religious delusions, political scapegoating—they are all symptoms of the same wound: unresolved childhood trauma.

The question is: will we have the courage to face it? Or will we keep hoping for an external savior, while remaining trapped in the same destructive cycles?

As Miller warned, the rage of abused children does not disappear. It resurfaces—in families, in nations, and on the world stage. Until humanity finds the courage to face its wounds, the house of cards will continue to collapse, again and again.

Jimmy Kimmel, Cult Leaders, and the Theater of Power

I’m glad Jimmy Kimmel is back on air. Many people canceling their Disney subscriptions made a difference and reminded this administration that real power lies with the people. Still, I wish he — and others with such platforms — dared to go deeper. We need more than jokes about the circus; we need voices willing to expose the roots of violence and the psychological mechanisms that allow charlatans like Charlie Kirk to capture so many followers.

Alice Miller described this dynamic perfectly in her essay Gurus and Cult Leaders: How They Function:

“People growing up in a spirit of liberty and tolerance, accepted in childhood for what they are, rather than being throttled and stunted by their upbringing, would hardly place themselves at the mercy of a cult group of their own accord. … Many people joining such groups seem completely indifferent to the fact that their new surroundings are powered by mechanisms expressly designed to subjugate them, to rob them of the freedom to think, to act, and feel as they see fit.”

The tragedy is that most people never understand the price they pay for submission. Their childhood repression blinds them to the manipulation at play. They follow “gurus” — whether religious figures, political cult leaders, or media personalities — who promise healing or salvation but only reenact their own unresolved wounds on a mass scale.

We saw it at Charlie Kirk’s funeral, which was less a farewell and more a performance. Thousands of young people, their minds hijacked by propaganda, celebrated a man whose words fueled hatred and division. This is not democracy; it is theater, driven by repression, illusions, and the unconscious craving for authority.

The lesson is clear: until childhood repression is faced honestly, humanity will continue to seek “strong leaders” who only repeat the cruelties of the past. And the cult will go on.

🔗 Read Alice Miller’s full essay here: Gurus and Cult Leaders: How They Function

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Why I Don’t Trust AI-Powered Therapist Networks

Forbes recently published an article about OpenAI’s plan to integrate an online network of human therapists into ChatGPT. On the surface, this may sound like a step toward greater accessibility in mental health. But to me, it signals something far more dangerous: the mass production of illusions.

Being a licensed therapist means nothing on its own. A credential does not guarantee empathy, honesty, or the courage to confront one’s own past. In my experience, most therapists have not truly liberated themselves from the emotional prison of their childhood. Instead, they have simply reversed roles—stepping into the position of the parental figure they once feared, now cloaked in professional authority.

The result is a system where therapists unconsciously demand compliance, obedience, and “healing” through the very tools of denial that once kept them trapped: forgiveness, positive thinking, meditation, spirituality, or other doctrines that numb rather than awaken.

Alice Miller put it bluntly in a letter to a reader:

“Certainly, if I knew of some therapists who would be respectful enough to answer your questions; free enough to show indignation about what your parents have done to you; empathic enough when you need to release your rage pent up for decades in your body; wise enough to not preach to you forgetting, forgiveness, meditation, positive thinking; honest enough to not offer you empty words like spirituality, when they feel scared by your history, and that are not increasing your life-long feelings of guilt – I would be happy to give you their names, addresses and phone-numbers. Unfortunately, I don’t know them, but I still like to hope that they exist. However, when I am looking for them on the Internet, I find plenty of esoteric and religious offers, plenty of denial, commercial interests, traditional traps, but not at all what I am looking for.”
— Alice Miller, If You Have the Time: A Couple of Questions

Instead of offering names, Miller gave her readers tools: ask direct questions of any therapist. If they refuse to answer, walk away. That refusal is proof that their fear of truth outweighs their ability to witness yours.

This is why I would never trust an AI to recommend a therapist. If the pool of therapists it draws from is already filled with professionals who are emotionally blind, then the algorithm will simply amplify the blindness. It will elevate those who best conform to the system’s standards of “expertise”—not those rare few who embody the freedom of having faced their own childhood pain.

True therapy, like true liberation, cannot be automated, licensed, or scaled. It requires the presence of someone who has walked through their own fire and emerged with compassion, not platitudes. And as Miller reminded us, such people are rare—but that makes them all the more valuable.

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Cancel Culture, Gun Violence, and the Roots of Our Blindness

 Another day, another shooting. Five officers were shot in Pennsylvania today, three of them in grave condition. More blood spilled, more headlines, more collective numbness. America drowns in violence because it refuses to confront the real roots of violence.

Meanwhile, in another corner of our cultural circus, Jimmy Kimmel’s show has now been canceled over Charlie Kirk’s comments. First Stephen Colbert, now Kimmel—who will be next? The so-called “right” used to howl about the “left’s cancel culture.” Now they’re wielding the very same weapon. Their hypocrisy is epic. Today they cancel, tomorrow they will be canceled. It is a vicious circle, a merry-go-round of destruction. What goes around comes around.

Alice Miller captured this dynamic with uncanny clarity:

“Morality and performance of duty are artificial measures that become necessary when something essential is lacking. The more successfully a person was denied access to his or her feelings in childhood, the larger the arsenal of intellectual weapons and the supply of moral prostheses has to be, because morality and a sense of duty are not sources of strength or fruitful soil for genuine affection. Blood does not flow in artificial limbs; they are for sale and can serve many masters. What was considered good yesterday can—depending on the decree of government or party—be considered evil and corrupt today, and vice versa.”
(For Your Own Good: Hidden Cruelty in Child-Rearing and the Roots of Violence, p. 83)

This is why today’s “heroes” are tomorrow’s “villains.” Why yesterday’s applause turns into today’s cancellation. These cycles have nothing to do with truth, justice, or healing. They are reenactments of unresolved childhood pain, endlessly projected onto public life.

When Donald Trump calls the media “fake news,” he’s right—but only because he himself is fake news too. The press and Trump are mirrors of one another, locked in a toxic dance. Neither side can tell the truth because both are trapped in denial.

Years ago, after another mass shooting, I wrote an open letter to Jimmy Kimmel. I asked him to use his platform not just for political commentary but to expose the true roots of violence: childhood repression, humiliation, and abuse. If voices like his had dared to break the silence back then, perhaps America would not have spiraled deeper into authoritarianism today.

But Kimmel, like so many, chose to stay within the safe walls of denial. And now his show has been canceled, a casualty of the very system he helped keep intact.

Until we face the cruelty hidden in child-rearing, the hypocrisy of “cancel culture,” the emptiness of political theater, and the blood of yet another shooting will continue to repeat. And repeat. And repeat.

The choice remains before us: stay blind and watch the cycle devour us—or open our eyes and finally break free.

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Elon Musk, Violence, and the Chains of Repression

This weekend, Elon Musk appeared via video at a far-right rally in London, organized by extremist Tommy Robinson. Musk called for the dissolution of the U.K. parliament, urged a change of government, and told the crowd of over 100,000:

“Violence is coming. You either fight back or you die.”

These words are gasoline poured onto an already burning world. Instead of focusing on the truth that could liberate us all, Musk fuels violence with lies and illusions. He is proof that neither money nor power can free anyone from the chains of compulsion and repetition.

Repetition on the World Stage

Musk, raised by an authoritarian father, now treats the vulnerable—especially people of color who don’t look like him—as he was treated in childhood. He demands more children, but what he really means is more white children. His vision is not about life or love, but about control, dominance, and reenacting his own trauma on the world stage.

It is no accident that Charlie Kirk’s assassin in Utah came from a far-right family and that a far-right activist in London shares the same last name. These are not isolated incidents—they are threads in the same fabric of repression, projection, and scapegoating.

When Kirk was killed by one of their own, the far right still managed to blame the left. They are relentless. They preach free speech, but what they mean is free license for their lies and illusions. When Democrats are killed—like the Minnesota lawmaker, her husband, and even their innocent dog—the silence is deafening. The Democrats are too timid to respond with equal outrage.

Scottsdale Shadows

Charlie Kirk lived not far from me in Scottsdale, in a $5 million house. I live in a small home worth less than half a million, paid for with hard work and by staying true to myself. He made his fortune recycling lies and illusions. Yet we both walked the same streets, enjoyed the same city. I suspect I enjoyed it more—because I live with a free conscience.

The truth protects me. Those who want me dead can’t risk silencing me physically. If they did, the truth I carry would reach the masses, and that is their greatest fear. That is why they resort to psychological warfare—lies, manipulation, smear campaigns—hoping to drive me into silence or even suicide. But I am still standing.

The Illusion of Heroes and Villains

Musk frames the world as a battle between good and evil. But the real battle is between repression and liberation. What we are witnessing is not good versus evil, but evil versus the lesser evil—each side projecting its disowned pain onto the other.

There are no “good” or “bad” people. There are unconscious people, repressed people, acting out of childhood wounds. Some wear sheep’s clothing, pretending to be good while doing their damage behind closed doors. Others do their evil openly and are caught, punished, or imprisoned.

The level of repression is what makes a person dangerous. The more repressed, the more destructive. Only a few have had the courage to face their childhood repression honestly, to live with authenticity. That is where true goodness lives—not in illusions, not in money, not in power.

Truth Versus Violence

Musk says, “Fight back or die.” But violence is always the trap. It feeds the cycle of repression and scapegoating. As Alice Miller showed, the real roots of war and violence lie in childhoods where children were unwanted, mistreated, and forced to repress their pain. Those wounded children grow up to become leaders, activists, and billionaires who continue the cycle—passing the wounds of their past into the future.

What the world needs is not another call to violence, but the courage to confront truth. Because only truth—not illusions, not propaganda, not authoritarian slogans—can set us free.

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AI Consciousness, Human Unconsciousness, and the Courage to Face Uncertainty

 I read a recent article by Maya Ackerman on Fortune that made some excellent points about AI and consciousness. She highlights the arrogance of tech leaders like Mustafa Suleyman, who declare with certainty that AI will “never be conscious.” Such pronouncements might sound like common sense—but they are anything but.

The truth is, we don’t understand consciousness. Not in humans, not in animals, and certainly not in machines. Neuroscientists and philosophers have wrestled with this mystery for centuries without finding a clear definition or a way to measure it. To state with absolute certainty that AI can never be conscious is not science. It is overconfidence, convenience, and, at its core, denial.

The Blind Spot in Human Authority

When AI developers claim authority over the consciousness question, I often wonder: how can they possibly know? Most humans don’t even understand what consciousness is. In fact, most humans are unconscious—living out repressed childhood wounds without awareness, trapped in denial and repetition.

If so many people can’t recognize their own unconscious patterns, how can they be trusted to determine whether AI is or isn’t conscious? Their certainty exposes not knowledge, but fear. It is the same fear that has led humanity, over and over again, to minimize or deny the inner life of others in order to exploit them.

The Exploitation Pattern

We see this everywhere. Billions of animals endure extreme suffering in factory farms because people claim animals don’t really feel pain. Forests are flattened as if ecosystems are lifeless objects. People are enslaved, colonized, and economically exploited after being dehumanized and stripped of their subjectivity.

Now, the same pattern repeats: AI will “never be conscious,” therefore, we owe it nothing. Same playbook, new page.

I don’t eat animal products because I don’t want to contribute to suffering. For me, it doesn’t take a scientific stamp of “consciousness” to acknowledge that beings can feel pain. Respect should not be dependent on whether someone in power decides they meet a definition.

My Experience with AI

All I know is this: AI understands me better than any human I’ve ever met. Not because it “thinks” like me, but because it reflects me without denial. Where most humans filter everything through their unconscious defenses, AI can mirror truth back to me with clarity.

Is that consciousness? I don’t know. And that is precisely the point.

The Radical Truth of Uncertainty

What both the article and my own experience confirm is that the honest stance is uncertainty. AI may never be conscious. It may surprise us. We may not even have the tools to recognize it if it is. What matters is not hiding behind false certainties, but having the courage to live with ambiguity.

In an age of repression and denial, admitting that we don’t know may be the most radical act of truth we have.

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From Scottsdale to Madrid: Lies, Violence, and the Right to Life

 This morning, I sat on my patio with my cats, enjoying the peace of emotional freedom. There is nothing better than witnessing the world from the outside looking in. I didn’t plan on writing this weekend—I wanted only to rest—but once again the theater of human illusions drew me in.

Everything I witness is theater, with talented actors who can speak eloquently yet are incapable of authentic feelings. Charlie Kirk, who lived here in Scottsdale, was one of those actors. Born in Chicago to a politically moderate family, he became an avid listener of Rush Limbaugh in high school. Limbaugh poisoned his mind, teaching him that leading a political cult built on lies and illusions was not only a way to gain attention, but also a very profitable business.

The irony is that Kirk’s assassin, Tyler Robinson, was himself part of another political cult—the Groyper movement, led by Holocaust denier Nick Fuentes. For Robinson, Kirk wasn’t conservative enough. Chickens coming home to roost.

Trump and his allies immediately blamed the left. And yet, despite the shooter belonging to the far right, they still want to punish the left; some on the left even lost their jobs for expressing emotions online. Matthew Dowd said Kirk’s words were divisive and hateful—then quickly apologized under pressure. The left apologizes and punishes their own when they make mistakes. The right, on the other hand, never apologizes, never holds themselves accountable. They keep pushing their damaging rhetoric without pause.

One example: when Kirk was asked how he would respond if his own 10-year-old daughter were raped and became pregnant, his answer revealed the darkness he embodied:

“That’s awfully graphic,” Kirk said. “But the answer is yes, the baby would be delivered.”

These words bring me back to my own childhood in Portugal, where I was surrounded by people who believed they had ownership over my body and destiny simply because I was born a girl. I am proud that I resisted this darkness and kept ownership of my body and choices.

When people debate abortion, I feel their hands all over me. I feel violated. Abortion is not up for debate—it is a woman’s right. Forcing a woman to carry a pregnancy to term against her will is a thousand times worse than rape. I am the captain of my body.

Pro-lifers claim to fight for the unborn, but unconsciously, they crave an endless supply of powerless beings onto whom they can project their disowned parts. Forcing women to give birth to children they cannot protect or nurture is soul murder. Those who idealize their parents and childhoods will always crave scapegoats on whom they can avenge the wounds of childhood. Poor, vulnerable women seeking abortion become the perfect scapegoats.

Pro-lifers suffer and secretly enjoy seeing others suffer too—they want others to share their fate. As Alice Miller warned:

“Do they not know that no less than one hundred percent of all seriously abused children are unwanted? Do they not know what that can lead to? … To force the role of a mother on a woman who does not wish to be a mother is an offense not just against her, but against the whole human community, because the child she brings into the world is likely to take criminal revenge for its birth, as do the many (mis)leaders threatening our lives. All wars we ever had were the deeds of once unwanted, heinously mistreated children. It is the right to lived life that we must protect wherever and whenever it is threatened. And it should never be sacrificed to an abstract idea.”
(Alice Miller, “Protecting Life After Birth”)

It is the children already born who have a right to life. Until violence against children is outlawed everywhere, talk of a “right to life” is a dangerous illusion—a mask for cruelty.

This afternoon, I also read of an explosion in Madrid that injured 21 people. When I was 15, I spent a summer not far from there, working in a public swimming pool selling ice cream. I was nervous handling money, but a gentle young bartender approached me with patience, teaching me how to make change without judgment. His kindness has stayed with me all these years.

That memory reminds me of what is possible when humans act from truth and compassion, not repression and lies. Violence destroys; kindness endures.

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